‘Ladies, if a man makes you compete over him with other women, he is not the prize. He is not looking for the best one. It’s a reverse auction. The prize is not given to the highest bidder but to one who is willing to stoop to the lowest.
If you win at his game, you lose everything else. It’s not worth it.
Real men who see your value will want to buy you at the price that is stated and not snatch you up at a deep discount that they enforced on you. It would make them feel bad. They don’t want to see you crawl, beg, wither in anguish, and all the other things that come with being the lowest bidder at a reverse auction.
It doesn’t make any sense. It’s toxic. This is a game with no winners. They will realize it also in the end. Maybe. Perhaps not. Where self-esteem and honor are the currency to devalue, there is no bottom, no limit to how low are some people willing to go. Don’t go there with them. It’s the bottom. It’s not the top.
Break through the smoke and mirrors.
Do not waste your time playing men’s games that erode your self-worth.
Leave the reverse auction room. Let the fools compete over fools. Let the losers be with losers.’
~ Lilith
Other tactics are future faking as in, “I can take care of you, ” when they can’t. Women will choose men based on potential. I choose a man based on evidence. Can he take care of me now? Not 5 years from now. Many want me to help them build themselves into being someone that can take care of me. They don’t want us to lower our standards because that’s what attracts them to us. They love the self esteem and they want to pimp it. Yet they turn around and demand that we lower those same standards to let them in. They like the confidence unless they have to abide by it.
Baiting tactics by these types are breadcrumbing, future faking, and hoovering. They hate to lose so when they are surrounded by pimps and seduction “experts” prepare for perhaps years of them trying every strategy to see if one sticks. This is why standards can never be lowered. Because their aim is to grind their target down. Ladies, get your magick up!
I have always given more than the price “listed”. There is always a price to pay. Whether it was out of love, respect, or thankfulness I have always given more.
“This price I pay for you, but this extra is ‘for you”. If you can’t afford something then save for it otherwise you have no “good business”.
Pay the price and more! Anything less only reveals insincerity.